Actually, any of the name-brand point-n-shoot cameras will prolly serve you well. Olympus, Canon, Minolta, etc. They all have about the same features. The zoom will range from about 38mm which is a wider angle than a 50mm "normal" lens, to about 75 to 90mm, which is on the light side of telephoto, but enough to frame a face in a crowd, or bring a large object a bit closer for a better picture.
Most have auto-focus, which works pretty well, and most have a flash which is effective to about 15 feet. Look for a model that has protective "doors" that snap over the lens, or a lens barrel that retracts to protect the lens element and the delicate gear which allows the barrel to "zoom". A soft case is also a nice feature.
This sounds dumb, but avoid cameras with plastic lens elements. They're out there, believe it or not. Also avoid a camera which says "fixed focus" or "focus-free". These cameras will not produce results you will be happy with. They are the cheapies, usually well under $100.00.
Expect to spend about $150.00 for a really decent small camera which has the features you want.
Timothy A. Bretz
"Remember to pillage before you burn"